Either don’t date, or if you do, just be an asshole, that’s what they want anyway.

 

“We know they’re bad boys. We know they’ve got other girls. We know we’re not important to them. We know that they’re not good guys, but we can’t help it. We must chase them.”

Guys welcome to Better Bachelor. I
am joker and you are not uh tonight
we’re going to talk about
a young lady who has streamed a video
and she’s explaining why
we know they’re bad boys we know they’ve
got other girls
we know we’re not they’re we’re not
important to them
we know that they’re not good guys but
we can’t help it
we must chase them but please nice guys
please nice guys wait for us until we’re
done with all the bad boys and our
hearts been broken
a bunch of times and we’ve had a lot of
pipe run through us
and we can no longer pair bond but then
please wait for us until we’re done with
that now she doesn’t get into that
portion of it
but she does explain how they know
they’re bad for them
but they can’t help it and also please
wait for us until we’re done
uh something I found interesting is that
you know what when guys talk about the
the game and being a kind of a pickup
type atmosphere where guys go and take
sometimes seminars sometimes read books
some guys naturally kind of figure this
out if they’ve been on dates a lot
which is I think kind of how I came always if you have
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no you either are a bad boy today and
never become a nice guy that’s the only
way you get any action
be the bad boy or don’t play at all.
across this
is that whenever I would date one woman
and I really cared about her I would
pour emotion into her and I would let
her know I cared and I was there for her
and then she would be blowing me off but
anytime that i
really didn’t care if I had a
relationship and
um anybody I dated I told him it was
casual and I would sometimes
date multiple women and if I didn’t hear
back from her like I didn’t really care
because I had a lot going on in my life
i’ve come to find out women like that
they like the chase
and women can say well that’s crap and
and you’re full of it
well this woman’s gonna this young lady
is gonna explain this as well and
I I think it’s because if a woman can
get a guy easily she feels
he must not have a lot of quality
because she was able to
get him easily where a guy of high
quality and who has a lot to offer
will be very selective about just
settling down with one woman
thus he’s very reluctant or hesitant to
settle with a woman
thus the perception is that he’s of
higher quality
this is again what the kind of the
dating strategy stuff is about
um so let’s get started i’ll get
recording on this and then we’re kind of
going to talk about more about this as
we go
but I I I just find it really
interesting to hear it coming from a
woman even
out of her own mouth and and this is
different than the articles because i
believe
like she’s she’s I don’t know 18 19 20
somewhere right around there
so this will resonate a lot with you
younger guys that are saying what is
going on
hey guys so today i’m gonna be talking
about good guys versus dicks and the way
chicks brains work since I am a chick
hopefully
you’re not guys i’m a chick um this is
how we think
and i’m gonna give you a little inside
um
information about how we think about
boys
so you know girls always like you know always if you have
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please wait for us
no you either are a bad boy today and
never become a nice guy that’s the only
way you get any action
be the bad boy or don’t play at all.
we
we want the nice guy we always get the
dicks we always get the articles we
really just want a nice guy
they are lying you know one thing that
um one thing that I think a lot of women
don’t realize is that
nice guy is code for boring guy
it’s code for he doesn’t have a lot of
other things going on in his life
it also may mean shy guy um
a lot of times you know from an outside
view
I would probably be considered like a
shy
nice quiet guy um why because I keep to
myself I do my own thing most of the
time
but the guys that are very um that are
very confident and that are very
in some cases narcissistic not always
but in some cases
the guys that are just going out there
and I forget
I forget if it was a buddy of mine in
college
or the military I think it was the
military where he said you know i’ll go
up and ask
20 30 girls i’ll go up and chat 20 or 30
girls up
trying to get one of them to go home
with me from the club at the end of the
night
and he said I usually succeed or if i
chat one up and maybe she’s a six
he said after that and I know we’re good
to go i’ll say i’m gonna go hang out
with friends and then he would go chat
with sevens and eights
and he would go home with the best one
he could get for the night but he talked always if you have
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no you either are a bad boy today and
never become a nice guy that’s the only
way you get any action
be the bad boy or don’t play at all.
to a lot of women
that was his game how important were
those women to him
zero now you take a guy that’s kind of
quiet kind of shy kind of reserved
and he doesn’t talk to women very often
and he meets a girl that’s attractive
and fun and interesting
all of a sudden he’s in he’s like wow
this is my chance and it’s very
important to him so he doesn’t want to
mess it up
so I think that’s where um the nice guy
boring guy comes in
the guys that don’t have time for women
or don’t put a lot of effort into her
uh they’re considered bad boys and
really the truth of it is they’re just
guys that
they’re not necessarily bad they just
don’t care about you I think that’s the
difference
they are lying the odds are they
probably do have a nice guy
going for them and like wanting to be
with them but no
they will choose the dickhead who’s
already got like three other chicks on
his tail
who like speaks to you like this hey
baby cakes let’s
fuck sorry that’s a message chicks don’t
think they don’t think with their brain
well they do but the brain is wired in
such a way that we want what we can’t
have
they want what they can’t have and they
know that this guy’s chasing three other
women and so it’s the challenge of it
but it’s it’s the competition of it as
well so
to give you a good example um if
what’s a good way I could how valuable
is a pebble
it’s not it’s not valuable at all
because they’re all over the place
they’re easily acquired they’re not hard
to get how valuable is a diamond
especially one that’s been cut and
polished and finished they’re very
expensive because it’s hard to find them
it’s hard to mine them
and it’s hard to polish them and then
they sell them and of course we won’t
even get into the
false inflation from de beers and all
the other stuff in the jewelry
industry but my point being is that a
diamond is very hard to find
what these women see when they see a guy
that’s got
two three four other women that he’s
messaging
and they’re all chasing after him she
sees a guy or
the the perception is the guy is hard
to get he’s hard to catch because he’s
valuable
it’s not even necessarily that he’s
really valuable because
again you might have the guy that’s you
know average looking
he does okay but he keeps to himself but
in his bank he’s got good savings he’s
got a nice house he’s got a nice car
but the bad boy that can like basically
sleep on friends couches
and probably goes out and spends too
much of his work money drinking and he’s
a party boy and all this other stuff always if you have
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please wait for us
no you either are a bad boy today and
never become a nice guy that’s the only
way you get any action
be the bad boy or don’t play at all.
he will have women chasing him because
he chases women
it’s actually part of his his game it’s
part of his hobbies
is he will chase women and when he does
that these women will interact with him
so when women see that he’s messaging
other women
and he may be talking to two five three
whatever
and if one falls off if he’s talking to
five and and one falls away
he will go out and get another one even
though he’s already got four why
because the women may fade off or he may
get tired of them or me he may have
been slept with one or been intimate
with one and decided well that’s all i
really wanted from her anyway
and he ghosts her and and it’s a cycle i
can’t say it’s a healthy cycle
in my opinion but hey for some guys they
enjoy this and they like doing this
well to this woman instead of the quiet
guy that sits at home and may have all
his things together
no one’s chasing after him so no one
wants him he’s not desirable you see
he’s an easy catch or even if he’s not
an easy catch
no one else is after him but to the guy
that’s being chased by
all the other women well they see that
he is
has social acceptance that society
embraces him and he’s being chased by
other women that means
she wants him too but she wants to be
the best one that he
stays with and he chooses now ironically
if he chooses her
and he decides to stay with her he’s no
longer
interacting with these other women and
she has them all to himself
the value starts to drop because he’s
not in demand anymore always if you have
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let’s have good good thoughts for
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no you either are a bad boy today and
never become a nice guy that’s the only
way you get any action
be the bad boy or don’t play at all.
so the irony out of all of this with the
quote bad boys
is the truth is the minute she gets a
bad boy all to him
herself he’s not a bad boy anymore he’s
not being chased by other women
he’s not chasing other women she’s
caught him there’s no more challenge
left
we will always go for the guys who
already have like those jocks that have
all the chicks already hitting on them
and they’re hitting on like a thousand
other chicks
we see it as a challenge we see it as oh
I want to fix him I want to make him
someone who can
love me or something see so
as she says jocks the athletic types and
they were always popular in high school
and in college
but when you when you take this guy and
she says I want we want to fix him
and we want him to love us the moment
he does that he is no longer the bad boy
he’s the good guy he’s the nice guy
because he’s been caught
there’s no challenge left she has him
and what what happens when you have him
you get bored of him you want the you
want to have the guy that everybody
wants
but if he says I love you and I want to
be with you and I want to stay with you
he’s not the bad boy anymore he’s the
nice guy so
the irony is thank and I did this in always if you have
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no you either are a bad boy today and
never become a nice guy that’s the only
way you get any action
be the bad boy or don’t play at all.
another video I talked about this a
little bit the other day
the minute a bad boy says
I love you and i’m all yours to a girl
he’s now the nice guy
and they get bored of him and so what do
they want they end up breaking up with
him
and going back after the bad boy because
they want the popular guy the guy that’s
chased after
and it’s this endless cycle you can
never have both
you can never have a bad boy or where
you can have a bad boy
you can have a guy that loves you and is
dedicated to you but the two can never
be the same
person it doesn’t work like that the bad
boy becomes the nice guy
but oh fuck it’s confusing I i’m just
trying to tell you guys
the good guys out there that on behalf
of all chicks
i’m really sorry I am so sorry that we
are so stupid
you hear what she says there on behalf
of all women
i’m sorry we’re like that not that
they’re like that i’m sorry that all
these other women are like that no
she says i’m sorry we’re like that she
knows she’s one of them
she knows it now it’s interesting that
she says i’m sorry
but not sorry enough to stop what i’m
doing not stop always if you have
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let’s have good good thoughts for
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no you either are a bad boy today and
never become a nice guy that’s the only
way you get any action
be the bad boy or don’t play at all.
sorry enough to you know go find a
normal guy no i’m just saying to you
i’m sorry but we’re still going to go
ahead and do it
because they can’t help it it is in
their nature they want again
popular attractive so on and so forth
because we will always go for the dicks
that’s the thing and the thing is we
know it’s wrong
we know we should be going for the good
guys but we can’t because
because the good guys are always like i
love you can’t you love me too
you know that was like on your tear like
oh you so great and it was a
complimenting you and huh it’s so nice
but no
because they’re so easy almost easy to
get in a way all right I mean she’s not
13.
I I know this meow meow thing she’s not
13. i
I got nothing on that one but our point
is valid
is that they’re so easy to get again
it’s a pebble I can I can get nice guys
anywhere I can walk out my door
i’ll toss my hair i’ll wear a little
low-cut something and the nice guys are
right there they’re easy they’re no
challenge
and if they had any value they’d be hard
to get
uh you know there’s something to be said
that and you’d have to
you’d have to fact check me on this one
but a very large percentage of people
that win the lottery
or win free money if they come from a
poor
or a poorer background they spend the
money lavishly
they go crazy they burn through it all
and they end up
right back to where they were broke
same thing has happened with young child always if you have
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no you either are a bad boy today and
never become a nice guy that’s the only
way you get any action
be the bad boy or don’t play at all.
actors in hollywood
and the other thing is that’s very
similar is
a lot of the stars like comedians and tv
stars and musicians
they call it the 27 club that a lot of
them around the age of 27 take
themselves out
kirk cobain chris farley um jimI hendrix
uh uh amy winehouse um
morrissey I mean the lost list goes on
and on because they don’t know how to
handle
the influence the fame the money so
what happens in a case like this is that
when a woman gets something very easily
there is no value to it just like these
rock stars and these musicians and
everything they got everything so easily
there’s no value to it and so then
nothing means anything to somebody and
it can be very very lonely
and very depressing and I think that’s
kind of what what these women go through
is they they they get this rush from
these bad guys and this excitement from
bad boys
and they want that chase and they want i
want the best guy out there
that I can get but once they’ve gotten
him he’s not the best guy anymore
because they got him so he can’t be the always if you have
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no you either are a bad boy today and
never become a nice guy that’s the only
way you get any action
be the bad boy or don’t play at all.
best
there’s gotta be better out there
there’s no
there’s no excitement in the chase i
know i’m sounding like such a bitch
right now but i’m just trying to explain
honestly what’s going down on our brains
because secretly we do know that we
should be going for the good guys
but we won’t because we fucking stupid
in
university or college chicks they start
going for the nice guys
so there’s hope for you guys i’m just
warning you again
be prepared for heartbreak because
chicks are fucking stupid
no offenses good chicks out there
actually aren’t lifeless but i’m just
giving you an inside opinion
so the the
the point is that that no matter what
you do
unless you now here’s the irony guys
going their own way and bachelors are
the
ultimate are the ultimate hard to catch
let me rephrase that we’re impossible to
catch because once you’ve really
committed to a life alone
and a life of doing your own thing we
will never settle down with a woman
not a single one at least we’re going to
date casually we’re going to do what’s
in our best interests and we’re going to
do what’s happy and and best for
us so eventually yes you take giselle
bundchen and tom brady
tom brady’s sports star you know worth
400 million whatever
she complains about him because she got
him but at one time he was the challenge
the minute the anytime a woman has a guy
naturally
they’re going to find that they get
bored of him now in the past this wasn’t
really a big problem because women would
say well i’m going to have kids
I have a family and that comes first the
family unit comes first
our happiness the well-being of the
family that comes first and there was
pleasure in that
but today there is no more satisfaction
in that anymore
because again the women can leave she
can take the kids she can get paid
out by child support she can get money
from the government or a good paying job
there’s no incentive and so now they’ve
gotten addicted to chasing the
butterflies and chasing the guys
it’s not me saying it it’s the women
because fucking stupid
and good luck to you guys and i’m really
sorry and yeah don’t go hating on me
just because I told the truth now i’m
just saying
i’m just saying it’s not my fault it’s a
way my brain’s wired
can’t change it I was born this way you
know here’s the funny thing
um so she is right number one
that uh that is the way women’s brains
are wired
she’s correct on that um and but it is
possible to say this is your fault
because what’s going to happen
you know if she just did this in high
school or college for a couple of years
and then met and and fell in love and
decided to have
like a solid relationship okay
not like not a big deal women can go
through there you know through their fun
phases like everybody else um it doesn’t
mean you have to you know be intimate
with every single guy that you go out
and date
but we find that’s happening more and
more and actually it’s now
you know body counts zipping up into the
50s and 60s is not a big deal anymore it
seems
but the problem is that this this chase
is addicting and that rush
of excitement is addicting and it’s a
never-ending
cycle and so it continues on up until
then the women that she’s or the guys
that she’s chasing after no longer
pay attention to her and she has no shot
anymore
and then she says okay i’m going to
lower my standards a little bit in some
cases
sometimes they don’t i’m going to lower
my standards a little bit and i’m going
to chase guys that I feel are below me
the truth is they’re not below them
maybe they’re now on par
or even a little bit ahead of them but
they feel like they’re dating down
and then they don’t get interest from
those guys and all of a sudden they
realize
no one’s interested in me anymore like
they’ll they’ll ask me out
I can get dates they’ll sleep with me
that’s no problem
um and things will be fun and casual for
maybe
a month or two and then she’s the one
getting dumped
by the quote nice guy which is
ironically turning into a bad boy
because she doesn’t bring any value
anymore because of her youth and
her earlier life decisions it’s it’s an
it’s an endless cycle but I wanted to
play this for you guys
because it it validates my point and
kind of what we talk about on here
where women make bad decisions and then
only when it’s too late
they go I should have I should have done
something and got the best guy I could
have gotten
back when I was 22 or 23 and been happy
but instead
the longer you chase the worse your your
choices get for long term and they don’t
realize this a lot of times until it’s
too late
the other thing that she says that just
blows my mind is
I know you nice guys are out there just
just understand and someday you’ll get
lucky
someday you’ll get lucky after i’ve had
all the pipe laid on me by all the good
looking guys
and all the popular guys some day when
i’m i’m i’m worn out
and i’m tired and i’m closing on the
wall and I want to have a family
i’m going to come to you and ask for you
to provide the kids for you to provide
the
the finances and i’m bringing a lot less
than I would have 10 years ago
but please please i’m sorry but please
wait for us
the problem with women today is they’re
not understanding that more and more men
are waking up to this
and more and more men are realizing no
i’m not going to wait for you
also I mean you you look at someone like
me i’ve got
basically two years to go until i’m 50.
no i’m not in the greatest shape of my
life but I can get there pretty darn
quick
and I I you know I still look pretty
good I look about 10 years at least i’ve
been told 10 to 15 years younger
than I actually am when I have the
availability
to go out and date someone that’s in
their mid to later 20s
and have a good time and enjoy myself
why would I settle down with somebody
that’s 38 and brings a bunch of baggage
and anger and maybe kids to the table
what they do is they just outplay their
hands too long and then when it
when they realize this it’s too late you
can’t
you can’t reverse the sands of time and
if they humbly came to the table
and uh realized that what they’re
bringing to the table is less and they
made to make had to make some
alternative choices if they came that
way they’d still be able to be
successful in dating
but unfortunately when you’re chased by
chads for
10 I mean let’s say it starts at 18
until 28 we’ll say
33 when you’re chased for you know 12
14 years by guys that are a couple rungs
higher than you on the ladder
when you’re used to that and then that
goes away
you can’t it’s exceptionally hard to say
i’m going to take my standards from here
and lower them to
here and still feel like you’re getting
a catch
they don’t they feel like they’re
settling at that point which they are
and the guy they’re settling for brings
nothing to the table either so both of
them are miserable at this point
in the meantime the successful men are
going out and dating the young women the
young women are having great times
with guys that have money and have cars
and have success and have finances and
can
travel around the world and have all
this fun and the ones in the middle
are are the younger ones that grew out
of the youth and they’re left in no
man’s land and they
hate it those I think are primarily the
women that are speaking out against men
that are you know like the brad like the
video I did just the other day about
brad pitt
date at 58 59 whatever he was dating a
27 year old supermodel
they’re the ones in that middle range
that are all hating on brad for dipping
down below them and they say oh what’s
she got to offer
she’s got everything that you can’t
offer youth vitality beauty no baggage
having fun etc so I thought you guys
would enjoy this
straight from the horse’s mouth as it
was if you see a couple of breaks in
this
it just meant it’s meant to cut out some
dead spots in here to make it a little
bit faster
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that we’re going to chase the bad boys
please wait for us
no you either are a bad boy today and
never become a nice guy that’s the only
way you get any action
be the bad boy or don’t play at all.